Someone very smart made that correlation for me a few days ago, and I have been pondering it ever since. She actually put it, rudeness= honesty, and I added honesty= love, so i guess that means rudeness= love? i do try to be honest with people. i think people need that, because there are plenty of people willing to tell you what you want to hear or agree with you or make you feel better, but very few who will tell you what you need to hear and will disagree, forcing you to re-examine what you think or believe. I think people need to stop and decide what they really think and have a reason to back up what they do, say, and think. It's easy to float through life on half- thought out ideas and ride the convictions of others. It's hard to make your own convictions and ideas, because they are yours. and if they are wrong there is no one to blame but yourself. So i guess if honesty really does equal rudeness, i am a rude person. i am sorry about that, it wasn't my intention at all. if i have ever been rude to you, consider this an apology and know that i was honest out of love. you don't have to like it. in fact it will probably make you uncomfortable occasionally. I'm ok with that, its good for you.
discomfort causes change, and change is good.
oh yes, and only 3 more days of Chemistry!
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so since you are a rude person, you are also a person full of love, by your theory.
and it's probably why i let you get so close to me?
in the end you're the friend people actually appreciate and turn to. crap. don't you hate that?
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